I find myself so filled with love for these people that already the thought of not being around them hurts deeply.
At this point, my friend said a startlingly insightful and (for me) incredibly difficult statement:
"You have to hold on loosely. Love them with all your heart, but hold on to them loosely."
I am wired to love people. I hold on to them tightly.
I think I'd rather get hurt by separation than risk my friends not knowing how much I love them.
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